NONAIVE wants to know how do you feel about dating someone in transition (with very limited funds).I have found that if you decide to make the decision to date that a time line should be given that you are comfortable with.During that time line you will be able to see what efforts are being made truly as far as even being able to add something to your life, spiritually or romantically that will be sufficient for you.Small things matter like even buying a beautiful flower or something, just to let you know you're being thought of, even when you're not around. Honestly what would you tell your daughter,BF,etc? NONAIVE wants to know how do you feel about dating a man with little or no money,DOES MONEY MATTER?? NONAIVE says yes! and anyone that tells you it doesn't,ask them what rock are they living under? at bare minimum you need to eat, right?
If you are seeing from the start he has no money for whatever reason but you're so excited because of the feeling that he gives you,PLEASE DO NOT MOVE TOO FAST AND COMMIT BECAUSE IN A LOT OF CASES WHAT U PUT UP WITH YOU WILL END UP WITH! "PLEASE TAKE THE TIME AND FIND OUT WHAT YOU WILL BE COMMITTING TO FIRST! PLZZZ !!!".
MEN SHOULD BE ABLE TO PROVIDE THE BASIC NEEDS FOR THE WOMAN HE IS PURSUING OR COMMITTING TO.
IF YOU HAVE TO GO TO ANOTHER MAN TO ASK FOR SOMETHING YOU NEED,YOU ARE WITH THE WRONG MAN!
IF YOU ARE PAYING FOR MOSTLY EVERYTHING, YOU ARE WITH THE WRONG MAN UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE THE PROVIDER.
REMEMBER THAT UNFORTUNATELY RESPECT NOW A DAYS IS NOT JUST GIVEN,IT HAS TO BE EARNED .YOU HAVE TO KNOW GOING IN WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU DESERVE AND DON'T SETTLE.A LOT OF MEN WILL RUN MILES ON YOU AND LOOK YOU IN YOUR FACE AND SAY I LOVE YOU AND GIVE YOU NOTHING BUT A BONE AND BE FINE WITH IT IF YOU ARE.
NONAIVE SAYS YOU ARE WORTH SO ,SO,MUCH MORE! STAND FOR SOMETHING LIKE YOUR SELF WORTH.....
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Sad to admit this, but I've been dating someone with limited finances, and after getting used to the "feeling" he gives me, I've grown tired of the lack of resources. He seems sorry for having so little, and I sit on the fence of doing what's right for me, and, trying to be supportive.
ReplyDeleteStill in limbo at this point, but I have to admit, I'm leaning towards doing what's right for me!
Hello Queen,I commend you on being supportive as the women is the back bone and you're suppose to be, period.If he is not on the grind trying to improve his circumstance,that's a red flag.There are certain things that come with the territory when you have a woman.Just as any man can make a baby but can they take care of it.Those that can't and are not striving to really try,don't deserve.
DeleteYou have to know what you want and how you want to be treated and basic necessities for GROWN FOLKS is a must,food/ gas and somebody has to have shelter.Remember, what you put up with you may end up with.I suggest you have a heart to heart with him and tell him what you expect from your man and give a time line in your (mind),what ever it is that you decide. Watch his motivation... I wish you the best Angi,
What's the difference how much money the guy, but if this is love!? It's great in our time to find a sincere feeling!
ReplyDeleteHello Mary, yes it is great in our time to find a sincere feeling but I guarantee you that feeling will leave if your man is able and is not doing or taking the necessary steps to make sure that when you're in his presence that your basic necessity's are taken care of.You deserve the best as his woman.I have seen in so many cases women "Being in Love with their man" but going to another man when they need things,like gas money or being short on rent,whatever the case may be.Not asking you to find a rich man but just someone that knows that it's more to having a woman than just having her as an arm piece and making love.A man needs to be useful.Look at the Animal kingdom,love is not enough.The male's have to prove themselves and are sought out by how good of a provider and protector he is.Let us not fall short and allow the animals to have a better mind set/way. It's not just about love it's also about survival! Good luck with your King.
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ooohhh sis...amen..I am with you..I dated a man for almost five years who was brillant, talented, and broke...from beginning to end...I'm sorry i didn't listen to my instincts in the beginning....no regrets but much more clarity about what i need from a lifelong mate.
ReplyDeleteThis situation would also be different if you are with a man and then, during the relationship/marriage, he goes broke. Are you willing to stand by your man while he gains money again? I have been there, but it all depends on if you think you can trust that he will step back up! In that case, you can stick by for better or for worse. Also, if you think you have found a builder who is just down on his luck, he might be a good man to invest in and stand by until he is on the top!
ReplyDeleteIt goes both ways.
ReplyDeleteLove is eternal.
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